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Choose to perceive realityas neutral – neither good or bad – and to allow the outer world to react unmolested to you, your actions, and your behaviour.
A form of psychotherapy as well as general philosophy on living.
A comparative measure of how truthful and real something is. The less able you are to debunk or disprove it, the more accurate it is - with the exception of irrefutable (unprovable) claims.
A form of yoga which involves two partners. Acroyoga is a combination of yoga and dance, which is useful for building connection.
In popular human sociology, refers to desirable men and masculine traits that suggest power & leadership.
Describes the respectful, but clear & direct communication of one's desires and intentions towards another.
Attribution bias describes a range of cognitive biased whereby we make faulty judgments about the cause of behaviour.
What you do with your expression of words or bodily actions as a response to your internal reaction.
Wordless communication, including physical posture and expression, eye contact, gestures, manner of speech, and more.
An ongoing development of work, through any number of jobs, that may or may not contribute to your mission.
CBT is a psychotherapy that is based on the cognitive model: the way that individuals perceive a situation is more closely connected to their reaction than the situation itself.
A mistake in reasoning, evaluating, remembering, or other cognitive process, often occurring as a result of holding onto one's preferences and beliefs regardless of contrary information.
A subjective assessment of pleasure or pain attached to sensations – anything judged as pleasurable is deemed to be comfortable, painful is uncomfortable. Craving/aversion are the more extreme forms.
Confidence has 3 main definitions: 1) emotional certainty, 2) skill competency, and 3) inner self-worthiness.
Confirmation bias is the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms one's preexisting beliefs or hypotheses.
A confrontation is the act of challenging someone in an effective, respectful manner, with the objective of improving both of your lives or at least delivering the truth.
A sensation of togetherness with another sentient being (this can occur during an interaction but also in the absence of their physicality). It can be described as consisting of rational, emotional, and physical aspects. From a neurotransmitter perspective, connection is most directly connected to oxytocin and serotonin.
Describes one's approval, whether implicit or explicit, to participate in an activity - especially sexual interaction.
Contentment is a mental or emotional state of satisfaction maybe drawn from being at ease in one's situation, body and mind.
Continually search for better knowledge, understanding and wisdom - pursue the best possible application of the most accurate truth.
A state of low mood and aversion to activity, that can affect a person's thoughts, behavior, tendencies, feelings, and sense of well-being.
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter found in the brain that aids in several aspects of brain function. These areas include motor function and mood, and possibly the best-known role dopamine plays relates to your perceived happiness.
A place free of serious debate where everyone repeats the same opinions, no one calls anyone else out, and criticism is frowned upon.
Internal sensations which are felt in response to mental states. Common emotions include happiness, fear, anger, and love.
A mental construction which Humans often create around an ideal situation or relationship, and find it difficult to let go of.
The belief that failure is bad, and will directly cause you harm, even when there is no evidence as such.
A neologism relating to a situation in which your world view is limited by the information you are receiving. This is especially common on the Internet.
A psychological bias where we tend to believe that small examples of people's behaviour accurately reflects who they are in general
The apparent skill or ability to attract prospective sexual partners easily, in social situations. Game describes personality, more than appearance.
Describes the distinguishing sexual characteristics of an organism, generally as male or female.
Green Light Syndrome is a BROJO term that describes a strongly-passive mindset, in which a person waits for approval before proceeding.
A mental or emotional state of well-being which can be defined by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.
A slang term referring to a particular form of sexual abstinence, specifically the avoidance of porn, masturbation, and orgasm.
An optimistic state of mind that is based on an expectation of positive outcomes with respect to events and circumstances in one's life or the world at large.
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