Far too often, people pleasing is dismissed as a superficial habit that shouldn't be taken too seriously. And yet, for nice guys and people pleasers, this behaviour hides dark secrets and significant trauma wounds. People pleasing is not just some nice little behaviours to get along with others, it is a deep-seated Avoidant Attachment strategy designed to prevent pain, rejection, and even connection.
In this video, I outline some of the reasons why you need to treat people pleasing as if it's a serious mental illness, and identify many of the damaging consequences it has in your life, some of which you might never before have considered to be an outcome of being nice.
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