New full length video out today!

Most men believe the secret to love, respect, and confidence is making people like them. They try to perform — being funny, seductive, generous, hardworking — hoping others will finally approve. But here’s the hard truth: this strategy always backfires.

I learned this firsthand during my pickup artist phase. I could seduce women, say the right things, and get results. But deep down, I knew the truth: they weren’t with me. They were with the mask I was wearing. And that realization destroyed any sense of security or intimacy.

When you make people like you through performance, you’ll always doubt them. Do they want me, or the act? If I stop providing, seducing, or people pleasing — will they still stay? That paranoia never ends.

The real path to lasting love and confidence is authenticity. Risk being yourself. Yes, you’ll lose people. But the ones who stay will be rock solid, because they love all of you — even your flaws. That’s the only kind of relationship worth building.

👉 Do you agree? Have you ever felt trapped by the need to be liked? Drop a comment below — I’d love to hear your story.

Watch the video here:

https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/why-making-people-like-you-will-ruin-your-relationships

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