Many of my clients are good, decent people who work on themselves and try to improve the lives of those around them. Yet despite these desireable and attractive traits, many of them struggle in dating and can't seem to create or maintain a healthy romantic relationship with a partner. They start to develop toxic shame - the belief that some is wrong with them - and yet they don't realise that there's nothing "wrong" with them, they just can't see how neediness sabotages their chances... and what to do about it.