"Women are manipulative and dishonest"
- People are manipulative and dishonest
- Hack documentary - Carole Cadwalladr & Brittany Kaiser showed integrity while Mark Zuckerberg and Alexander Nix were false and deliberately criminal
- Men more able to use physical domination – we use the most effective tools
- Who expresses emotion more? Who FEELS emotion more? Both equal in feeling, but women far more expressive emotionally – how is that less honest?
- Rather: be honest to avoid manipulative people
"Women are more emotional than rational"
- Feminine is more emotional, but all humans are essentially emotional – masculine just tends to suppress more
- Emotional isn’t bad – it’s just not easy. If you want easy, be gay
- Communicate emotionally – let go of content and listen to feelings
- Talk about experience rather than facts – everybody likes emotional stories more than Uni lectures
- Rather: Decide if you’re masculine or feminine – seek your counter. If you don’t like emotional women, go to MMA, Spartan training or leadership courses to find a partner
"Disagreement/negative emotions will kill your chances"
- Being too nice will
- Emotional range is what connections are built on
- It can get heated, as long as it never gets personal = you don’t have to agree but you must always be loving and empathetic
- Rather:seek a woman you can safely disagree with.
"They don’t want to see weakness or negativity"
- They want real – too positive or cool is fake and sets off their warning alarms
- You need to be strong where it counts – mostly, standing up to her and for her
- Being weak is fine as long as it doesn’t endanger her – you can be scared as long as you’re also brave
- If you’re flawless, you’ll be boring and unrelatable
- Best gift you can give is for her to be the only one who gets the privilege to see your most vulnerable moments
- Rather: Discard any girl who wants you to be unreal. Explore deeper with those who let you be you.
"Women don’t want sex as much as men"
- Straight up wrong – it’s the opposite
- Most emails I get come from unsatisfied women – I rarely hear men complaining (and when they do it’s them who isn’t initiating)
- Sex is riskier for women – it is often followed by loss of interest and shame
- Most guys suck in bed, so women aren’t expecting much of a performance
- Women need to warm up – foreplay is your best friend, and it starts away from the bedroom
- Their fantasies will shock you
- Rather: women need to feel safe to have sex, due to risk of rape,reputation smearing, and heartbreak. Make sure having sex with you is safe,comfortable and enjoyable – i.e. no pressure, no telling your mates, complete openness at all times, playful and fun.
- Only applies if you’re fake and they’re fake, and you have nothing deeper to offer
- Science on this is fucking weak, mostly based on lower mammals pecies
- Stats like women initiating divorce are used, yet stats on cheating favour men https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
- Reasons for divorce – none of these are about upgrading materialistically https://www.insider.com/why-people-get-divorced-2019-1
- Prevent cheating and break ups by
o Being honest
o Being sexual
o Managing resources responsibly
o Polarising early – getting deal-breakers out the way
o Go all in or don’t go at all
o Learn how to have healthy confrontations
o Make sure values are proven before commitment
- Rather: avoid materialistic and superficial women, by focusing on hobbies, purposeful pursuits, sports and other qualifiers as places to meet women