In the first few months of dating, there were many things you did where she was perhaps annoyed.

However, it was the honeymoon phase, and she wasn’t totally honest with you yet.

Unwittingly — maybe even accidentally — you let her have emotions back then.

Now that you're aware of all her feelings all the time, you don’t let them happen.

Most importantly — and again, some of you may have never done this — you were willing to risk losing her in order to maintain your integrity.

A lot of guys in the early dating phase — especially if they’re doing alright with women in general — they’re willing to lose this one or that one if it means not compromising themselves.

They think, “Well, there’ll be another one later.”

But some guys — the ones who are desperate with women — they never maintain their integrity.

The big change I often see — especially with confident guys who end up like squeaky little mice by the end of the relationship — is that at the start, they’re like:

“Okay, I have a certain set of principles I live by.
If you’re not on board with that, there’s the door.”

And then later in the relationship, they’re like: “Oh… that principle makes her mad?
Well, scratch that one off. That’s gone. I don’t have any anymore.”

So in other words — at the beginning, you were probably easy to admire.

You were easy to respect.

You were attractive.

And now, all of those things have come to an end — because you’ve been trying to keep her happy.

You cannot make the goal her approval.

Even if you’re now looking to change this — thinking, “Okay, you’re right. ‘Happy wife, happy life’ isn’t working. I’ve gotta become more confident, authentic, bold, self-sufficient — and then she’ll like me…”

It’s just another manipulation.

To dive deeper into this topic, check out the original video here:

https://youtu.be/XsIZzcplMMM

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