Imagine this:

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You're in a room, standing in the middle. There's a door on the left and a door on the right.

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Through the door on the left comes a man, who, without saying a word to you, sets the left-hand wall on fire.

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You stand there, starting to feel the heat from the fire.

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This man hasn’t spoken to you—he’s just standing there while you begin to feel the heat increasing.

It gets uncomfortable, then a little painful.

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You look to your right and see the door on the right-hand wall is open.

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Outside, there's a beautiful garden, a cool breeze, a little pond—just the perfect place to go if you're feeling too hot.

That seems like an obvious choice, right?

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You dash out the door.

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The man setting the fire caused you to leave the room.

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He didn’t need to say anything to make you leave; he didn’t even acknowledge there was a way out.

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He just set one side of the room on fire, and without stopping to ask yourself, Is this fire real? Can I handle the heat? What happens if I just stand here?—you saw the open door and ran for it.

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You moved away from the discomfort into the comfort.

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That decision to exit through the right-hand door was the moment you got manipulated.

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It wasn’t the fire. It wasn’t the doors being available. It was your decision to move because you didn’t want to deal with the heat anymore. That was your choice—not his.

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To dive deeper into this topic, check out the original video here:

https://youtu.be/hbKGmggi21Y

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