Nice guys destroy relationships in ways they think are healthy. They think that love should be enough, being easygoing makes them attractive, and staying calm or rational during conflict makes them mature.
But what actually happens is:
I know this because I used to do it all the time.
Girls kept losing interest in me after 3 weeks of dating, and I couldn’t figure out why. I was so easygoing, funny, comfortable to be around.
That’s good, right?
They were really into me at first, then a pattern would emerge: they’d reject sex, then I’d get ghosted or text dumped like I meant nothing. I felt like I was doing everything right, when I was actually doing everything wrong.
My reliance on my understanding of love just lead to covert contracts and hidden resentments, my agreeableness made me bland, one dimensional and boring. When I did stand up for myself I was insecure, overly rational, and trying too hard, which just gave off little boy vibes rather than mature man energy. No wonder it wasn’t working!
In this podcast – a live streamed workshop – we’ll discuss the three critical mistakes nice guys make in relationships, which they mistakenly believe are healthy. These include:
We’ll explore how these behaviours lead to dead bedroom relationships, resentment, and a lack of genuine connection. We will look at the importance of setting boundaries, expressing preferences, and being non-defensive to foster healthier relationships. We’ll also highlight the need for emotional range and authenticity to maintain attraction and deep connection…
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