New video out today!

ADHD and spectrum issues keep coming up in my research. There's a high search volume for how these issues affect relationships, so they get a special mention in today's video.

Some of the ADHD communication issues we'll talk about (I have most of these)

• Forgetfulness - I can’t hold two thoughts in my head
• Impulsiveness - I act before i think, especially with annoying issues
• Anxiety - I don’t any more, but this used to rule my life
• Emotional outbursts - built up tension and overwhelm
• Talk too much - more social anxiety than ADHD, comes from fear of losing their interest
• Can’t pay attention / listen - zoning out, do it all the time
• Disorganised - particularly bothersome to neat people, which we always end up with
• Feel lost, ignored, unloved - side effect of comms issues and resentment on both sides

Then we'll explore what these look like in a relationship when combined with Nice Guy Syndrome issues

• Covert contracts
• Alexithymia
• Pukes
• Fixing rather than support
• Unsolicited advice
• Constant manouvering instead of spontaneous honesty
• Pretending to be ok and pretending to listen etc.

Watch the video here:

https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/relationships-with-adhd-and-nice-guy-syndrome/

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