There are women who prioritize authenticity, a sense of humor, and emotional connection over things like status. And these are all qualities any man can develop.

He’s not in competition with anyone.

You can have your own sense of humor—it’s not a competition. There are people out there who you don’t think are funny at all, but somebody else might think they are hilarious. It’s totally subjective.

From my experience, both personally and coaching others, here’s what I’ve found: yes, if your criteria for connection is status, wealth, power, or looks, then you’ll be competing in that marketplace, with all the other people playing that same game.

But if you focus on creating a deep emotional connection, connecting on core values, making them feel heard, and sharing your philosophy, there’s no competition anymore.

Ever notice when people enter that bubble where it’s just them?

No one else has a chance.

Maybe you’ve seen it at a party or an event—a guy and a girl just click, completely immersed in each other.

That connection doesn’t come from status. It doesn’t come from hierarchy.

To dive deeper into this topic, check out the original video here:

https://youtu.be/QX7yimxhCv8

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